My [HORRIBLE] Experience at Sonic

Author: DavidJones  //  Category: Ethics, Food

Last night a friend and I decided to go to Sonic to get ice cream. When we pulled into the parking lot, there were about 2-3 cars parked, and a few people outside ordering food. Didn’t seem like a busy night. After a few minutes, I pressed the big red button and ordered. My friend ordered a strawberry-banana fruit smoothie, and I ordered a banana split. 

It seemed to take a lot longer than usual to get our food. In fact, it was about 15 minutes before the girl brought it to us. However, 15 minutes wasn’t that big of a deal. She handed us the smoothie–no problem. That’s where the fun stopped. She handed me the banana split which was surrounded by 10-15 napkins (I’m not exaggerating). The napkins were covered in chocolate syrup. Apparently someone had filled the container too full and it was leaking out of every side. When she handed it to me, it immediately dripped through the closed container and onto my pants. After pulling it into my car, the banana split and the napkins leaked even more onto my pants, my car, and my friend. It was a mess!

Since things were getting nasty, I had to get out of the car. Once I got out, I started looking at the banana split. For some reason, all of the toppings were on the bottom of the container. It makes me think that the container got flipped upside down at some point. Also, the ice cream and whipped cream was not visible. Instead, there was a banana floating in a tub filled with milk. Either the thing had completely melted, or they filled it with a half-gallon of 2%. 

While I tried to lick the stickiness off my hands, my friend asked the waitress if I could get another banana split because mine was melted, leaking all over, and frankly a bowl of cereal without the cereal. She said sure and went back inside. Once again we waited…and waited…and waited…and waited…

After 20 minutes, I still had no banana split, even though I had ordered and paid about 40 minutes earlier. We finally decided to leave. My friend went inside Sonic and told them we were leaving. They told her they had completely forgotten about it and offered to make another one. She politely told them no thank you. One of the girls working asked if my friend if we had already paid. She nicely told them yes, but we were going to go somewhere else. 

We got in the car to leave, and I half-expected someone to come running out with my money, some ice cream, or coupons. None of that happened. Instead, I went down the road to McDonalds, where they got my order right…and delivered my food in less than 2 minutes. Thank you McDonalds.

I’m a pretty big stickler for Customer Service. I believe it is the job of employees to provide you with the service you pay for. I also believe people are human and make mistakes and we do have to understand that. However, when mistakes are made, I believe it is the job of the company/person/service to make things right. 

I called Sonic this afternoon to explain last night’s events. I didn’t call with a mean or demanding attitude. I called in a respectful manner to inform their Customer Service department of what had taken place. The girl I talked to was very nice and understanding. For someone who probably deals with complaints and angry customers all day, she did a great job of doing her job. She apologized several times, took down my information, and sent it to the management of the particular Sonic restaurant.

I hope to follow up with this story soon. I have no idea what Sonic will do, if they even will do something. But, in my eyes, they do have a chance to make things right. If they do respond, I’m curious if it will be in a personable way, or in an automated  ”this is standard procedure” way. Do they care about making things right with each individual customer, or do they care more about not making people mad?

Stay tuned… 

(For the record, if the picture above is what a banana split is supposed to look like, I have no idea what they brought me!)

Why Do Christians Drink Alcohol?

Author: DavidJones  //  Category: Ethics, The Church

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I know this post might spark a lot of debate (or maybe none at all), but please read the question before you begin tossing your opinion around. I am not asking “Is it wrong for Christians to drink alcohol?” nor am I asking “Is drinking alcohol a sin?” Rather I am asking a question out of complete ignorance. My question is “Why do Christians drink alcohol?” I’m looking for honest or even supposed responses.

Why do Christians drink alcohol?

Jon & Kate…Too Late?

Author: DavidJones  //  Category: Ethics, TV

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A few days ago I posted about the semi-reality TV show Jon & Kate Plus 8. I questioned if by watching the show, people are contributing to the downward spiral of the marriage between Jon and Kate. At the end of the post, I asked if there was an ethical dilemma with watching the show.

Tonight I came across a post by Walt Mueller, founder of Center for Parent/Youth Understanding (CPYU) concerning this same topic. Mueller is one of the best Christian leaders in understanding today’s culture, and understanding how it’s affecting today’s youth. He’s also great at sorting through the mess of today’s culture and giving us a biblical response. If you’re ever looking for a great example of being in the world but not of the world…while still remaining relevant to today’s culture, Mueller is your man.

While Mueller already has a step up on most in dissecting culture, he was able to bring unique perspective into the Jon & Kate Plus 8 fiasco. Why? Mueller lives in Elizabethtown, PA, the town where the show first took place. Mueller has actually had some interactions with the family. 

If you get the opportunity, check out his website. His unique perspective brings so much to the table:

Click Here to Read Walt Mueller’s Post

Or paste this URL in your browser: http://learningmylines.blogspot.com/2009/06/jon-kate-too-late.html

The NBA–Amazing Athletes, Horrible Fathers?

Author: DavidJones  //  Category: Ethics, Sports

The NBA Finals begin on Thursday night as the Los Angeles Lakers take on the Orlando Magic. While I was watching the Cavs vs Magic series, a sad idea began to run through my mind. As the highlights and commercials showed LeBron, Howard, and Kobe, I began to think about the dysfunctional/broken families that have come as a result of poor decisions on the part of NBA players. Here’s what ran through my mind…

LeBron James- Father of 2 children out of wedlock with his current girlfriend

Dwight Howard- Father of 1 child out of wedlock

Kobe Bryant- Highly publicized extramarital affair

Michael Jordan- Had a mistress during his 16 year marriage

Larry Bird- At least 1 illegitimate child

There are even websites on the net that seem to be making a mockery of the situation, by having competitions to see which NBA players can have the most illegitimate children. Sadly, the leader has 9, with many players not too far off. 

Speaking anonymously, one NBA player estimated that 50-60% of NBA players have had children out of wedlock.

I don’t have much of a point to this post, other than noting how sad this is. Yes, these players are great athletes and great entertainers, but when it comes down to true values like being leaders of the family and having integrity, true cases of character are hard to find in the NBA. 

Hopefully we’ll look elsewhere for our role models.

Jon & Kate Plus 8–Should We Be Watching?

Author: DavidJones  //  Category: Ethics, Pop Culture, TV

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Jon & Kate Plus 8 debuted on the Discovery Channel in April 2007. The show chronicles Jon and Kate Gosselin and their 8 children. In 2008, the show moved to TLC. When the show first debuted, it drew some attention, but it was not a media phenomenon. However, over the past few months, more attention and more viewers have been received by the show than ever before.

Part of the reason the show has received so much hype is because of the ongoing marital problems between Jon and Kate Gosselin. With cameras around 24/7, the problems are impossible to hide. Even off-camera, the tabloids have reported stories of Jon cheating on Kate with a younger woman, and Kate cheating on Jon with a bodyguard.

There has also been a lot of hype made about the possible exploitation of the children on the show. Some experts believe the young children have no way of protecting themselves from the media and spotlight, and they have been forced to endure emotional distress.

In spite of (or because of) the ongoing problems within this “reality TV” show, the fifth season of the show premiered with a record 9.8 million viewers, making it the most watched show of that evening, including broadcast TV. However, the show was anything but glamorous as it further chronicled the marital missteps of Jon and Kate the nosedive of their marriage.

As the problems keep on rising, more viewers tune in to watch. It’s as if more and more people want to gather around this train-wreck and watch as the tension and drama mounts. 

Do you think there is an ethical dilemma regarding viewing this show? Is it possible that the show has actually contributed to the failure of Jon and Kate’s marriage, and is it possible that by watching the show, we’re contributing to it too? 

This issue has really plagued me recently. This isn’t a fictional drama; this is real life. Is it completely innocent to watch this near-documentary of an American family, or are we taking part in the decaying moral fiber of our society?

Something to toss around and chew on…