
While many people are still talking about the Super Bowl, another sports story has come out of different proportions. Unless you’ve checked out from the world for the last few days, you’ve probably heard about the picture that was taken of Michael Phelps at a party in South Carolina. Phelps was photographed smoking marijuana. In case there was any question, Phelps has acknowledged he is the person in the picture. He has since issued a public apology for his actions.
This whole incident seems very alarming to me, not only because of Phelps’ actions, but also because of the feedback that has been coming through many sports talk radio lines and web sites. Let’s start with the latter…
Many people have been saying this whole ordeal is being blown out of proportion. These people argue Phelps is 23 and is only doing what most 23 year olds are doing these days. The guy has spent his entire life training to be an American hero…he deserves a break.
Others are arguing there is nothing wrong with smoking marijuana. Even though it’s illegal, they claim it’s safer than cigarettes and the whole incident should be completely acceptable.
And then there’s Michael Phelps. Yes, he did issue an apology, but after hearing him speak in interviews, I’m a little skeptical of any professional sounding written apology. No offense to the guy, but I’m having trouble believing he wrote this apology on his own. Maybe it was sincere, but I’m sure he had a lot of help. Regardless, this apology can only go so far.
In my opinion, if this was the only case of wrongdoing in his career, he could be forgiven by the American people in time. Santonio Holmes, WR for the Pittsburgh Steelers and Super Bowl MVP, was guilty of a similar thing in 2008. Now, people have vague recollections of the incident and will remember him more for his Super Bowl catch than his drug use…that is, unless he messes up again.
Sadly, in the case of Phelps, this isn’t the first time he’s messed up. In 2004, as a 19-year-old, Michael Phelps was arrested and charged with a DUI. Not only was he driving drunk, but he was not even old enough to drink. As part of his sentence, Phelps had to speak to students at several schools about making choices and the dangers of alcohol.
Five years later, he’s back in the same situation. I understand we all make mistakes, but some of our mistakes have stronger consequences. After the Olympics in 2004, Phelps was considered an American icon. After the 2008 Games, he was considered a world icon, hero, leader, and role model for many. Whether or not he asked for the role, he was given it because of his accomplishments. Sponsors came out of nowhere to pay Phelps the big bucks so he could endorse their products. Swimming classes and lessons skyrocketed in enrollment from people simply watching Phelps on NBC.
Phelps may not have asked for the attention, but he certainly had to know it came with the territory. After making a stupid decision to drive drunk in 2004, he knew well and clear every move he made would be watched by the country. After winning his record gold medals in Beijing, he had to know he would be put under the microscope even more and be analyzed for every move he made.
Maybe you think we should cut him some slack. Maybe we’re going overboard on all of this. I actually don’t think we are. DUIs and drug possession are major charges. Not only did he do something stupid to himself, but he also put others in danger through his decisions. I am glad he apologized, but there’s part of me that is just wondering when he’ll do something stupid again.
Michael Phelps is NOT an American hero. He’s not a role model. He’s not a leader. He doesn’t deserve to be worshiped, praised, or bowed down to. The guy can swim. That’s it! Our country loves him because he swims fast. We don’t love his personality, his humanitarian efforts, his hospitality, his wisdom, or any great attributes. We simply love him because he can swim.
That may get you on the front of a Wheaties box, but in my opinion, it gets you nowhere in life!
When Charles Barkley made headlines by stating he was not a role model, maybe he was on to something. Parents, grandparents, brothers, sisters, teachers, doctors, pastors, youth pastors, etc should be the real heroes. Sadly, Barkley’s recent DUI makes his point more apparent than ever.
Is Phelps’ crime a big deal? It shouldn’t be, because we shouldn’t care. We should care about his inappropriate actions, not because he’s Michael Phelps, but because he’s doing some stupid things. We shouldn’t care about the prestige of the person doing it, because he should never be our hero, role model, or icon to begin with.
(Picture from News of the World)